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We’ve all been there right? You’re scrolling through your reader, and suddenly you see the title: “Review: [Book Title] by [Author’s Name] and you get REALLY excited because that just so happens to be one your all time favorite books. You click eagerly on the post, anticipating the blogger’s thoughts. As you’re reading it through, your smile starts to fade. Then you’re going back to reread parts to make sure that you read right, to make sure that you actually comprehended what the blogger was trying to say.
Their words hit you over and over again, as they break down that book that you loved so dearly. Your face is one of horror now as you realize that you made a big mistake by clicking on this post. Then the worst hits you as you finally scroll down to read the rating. The dreaded one star rating hurts you like nothing has so far, and you have to look away from the screen for a moment just to get a hold of yourself.
It can’t be, you think. Is there another novel with the same title and same author that they read? Because it couldn’t be your book they hated so much. There’s simply no way you guys read the same book.
But then you shake your head at your obvious denial because you did read the same book. That very book that you loved so dearly and raged about all week was the same book that the blogger beat down until it could never walk again. What a day.
Truly, one of the greatest aspects about books, is that we take different perspectives on them. Because we are unique individuals, we in turn take unique meanings from them. Some will think that Aslan stands for the Christian religion while others will believe that he just a lion, who happens to talk. We are made up different ideas, different beliefs therefore we couldn’t possibly all agree on one book.
And usually that’s okay, but there are those days. Those days when you scroll through your feed and find a review about a book you love and that review isn’t pretty. That review breaks down that novel before you’re very eyes, attacks the very things you loved about it. It’s hard to read a review like that, when you’re so passionate about the subject.
But you shouldn’t let those reviews get to you. Don’t attack the blogger, don’t throw out the beloved book, take a step back and once your feelings subside think about this: your book just became all the more special. The fact that you connected to the novel in such a way that this other blogger did not simply means that this book understands you in a way that others can not. This book was unrelatable to others which means you share a unique relation. You and you alone will take those meanings that were so profound and hold them dear. It will be like a special secret between you and your book that no one else understands. The fact that another person doesn’t like it just means that now more than ever it truly is YOUR book.
So once the hurt subsides, remember your special connection to the book just tightened. So don’t hate the blogger, thank them for strengthening your bond.
Have you read a book that broke your heart? Did you turn into the hulk or get over it? Share below and happy reading!